Well, as told at previous post, I'm gonna share more about the life of "the little monster" >.<" I'm sorry to really named him that, but he is one dude that really made me so so mad. If you know me well, I'm a person who don't get frustration so easily, I don't shout or raise voice at someone although that someone did something wrong to me, I'm that kind of person who is never mind. But if you test my patient, that's it. Even if I were to scold that someone, I will just speak in a reverse cycle, whereby that someone will not get offended, but instead, felt guilty about it =)
Back to the 'little monster'.
I seriously have no intention to make this issue big here and let the whole wide world to recognise this 'little monster', just that, I felt an urge to share this thing so that in the near future, to whoever who will have kids, (or whoever parents are reading it now) will understand the essential of up bringing a child. I'm just a teenage, or I should say young adult? Whatever. But my concern is that, although I may not have experienced being a parent, may not have experienced teaching kid, but I simply do know what is character and personality + society. I was used to be brought up in a family whereby the parents are always early for work and late back home. Even if they have finished task early, they would spend time drinking till late night(now no more la) The philipino was very useful then. BUT, one thing for sure, we learned a lot from the stern daddy. Although we were mostly taken care by the maids and grandma, but we obey the dad. Hence, the result of us today, good girl. But still, for you guys to comment ^^
OKay, back back to the 'little monster'
He has this attitude problem, whenever I correct him be it pronunciation, grammar, or even the way to speak in front of people, he will surly give one kind of look to me, a dislike look. He will push the table real loud, kick and bang the table, do whatever things he likes. How do I react? I'm not bothered anyhow, he damage it, he'll get it. And another is, I seriously have no idea if the parents had taught him "THE WAY TO ASK PERMISSION!"
Lets think about this thing below:
How will you ask and act if you want to use the pencil which your friend IS using? (think about it.)
And now, let me share with you how this 'little monster' ask and act.
he asked: "Can I borrow?"
he acted: took it away from his friend. (without getting any permission from his friend whether yes or no)
I saw that incident with my own eye, he can't denied. This is how he answered me.
me: "How can you snatched the pencil like that when your friend is using? Did you asked permission?"
he: "I asked already, that's why I take."
And so I asked, do you really understand what is 'permission' ? Ask and that person must say yes only you can get the thing you want. This is ask and snatch, not ask permission! Then as usual, he give me that kind of hatred look. Imagine he did this thing when the friend is using electronic dictionary, eraser, even reading a book.
Oh ya, 1 more thing, he beat girls and denied it. He even blame on that girl that she started off 1st, but the fact is that, he hit her because she accidentally dropped his lollie on the floor, and he wants her to buy a new one for him. Imagine a 12years old boy hitting a 9years old girl?
I seriously think I have to meet his mum personally.
Back to the 'little monster'.
I seriously have no intention to make this issue big here and let the whole wide world to recognise this 'little monster', just that, I felt an urge to share this thing so that in the near future, to whoever who will have kids, (or whoever parents are reading it now) will understand the essential of up bringing a child. I'm just a teenage, or I should say young adult? Whatever. But my concern is that, although I may not have experienced being a parent, may not have experienced teaching kid, but I simply do know what is character and personality + society. I was used to be brought up in a family whereby the parents are always early for work and late back home. Even if they have finished task early, they would spend time drinking till late night(now no more la) The philipino was very useful then. BUT, one thing for sure, we learned a lot from the stern daddy. Although we were mostly taken care by the maids and grandma, but we obey the dad. Hence, the result of us today, good girl. But still, for you guys to comment ^^
OKay, back back to the 'little monster'
He has this attitude problem, whenever I correct him be it pronunciation, grammar, or even the way to speak in front of people, he will surly give one kind of look to me, a dislike look. He will push the table real loud, kick and bang the table, do whatever things he likes. How do I react? I'm not bothered anyhow, he damage it, he'll get it. And another is, I seriously have no idea if the parents had taught him "THE WAY TO ASK PERMISSION!"
Lets think about this thing below:
How will you ask and act if you want to use the pencil which your friend IS using? (think about it.)
And now, let me share with you how this 'little monster' ask and act.
he asked: "Can I borrow?"
he acted: took it away from his friend. (without getting any permission from his friend whether yes or no)
I saw that incident with my own eye, he can't denied. This is how he answered me.
me: "How can you snatched the pencil like that when your friend is using? Did you asked permission?"
he: "I asked already, that's why I take."
And so I asked, do you really understand what is 'permission' ? Ask and that person must say yes only you can get the thing you want. This is ask and snatch, not ask permission! Then as usual, he give me that kind of hatred look. Imagine he did this thing when the friend is using electronic dictionary, eraser, even reading a book.
Oh ya, 1 more thing, he beat girls and denied it. He even blame on that girl that she started off 1st, but the fact is that, he hit her because she accidentally dropped his lollie on the floor, and he wants her to buy a new one for him. Imagine a 12years old boy hitting a 9years old girl?
I seriously think I have to meet his mum personally.
1 comment:
haha... poor u girl.... anyway... teach with loving, caring, and passion... put more time, and effort on this ' little monster' and show your love to him.... he will remember u when he grown up and know that u are a good teacher and make a great impact in his life...... and relax la.....
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